Gov. Herbert to Ceremonially Sign Five Education Bills, Participate in Groundbreaking Ceremony for Elementary School
What:
Gov. Herbert will ceremonially sign education bills passed during the 2019 General Legislative session as part of the groundbreaking ceremony for a new elementary school in West Jordan. These bills create a new scholarship program, provide funding for computer science courses and implement policies designed to make schools safe, healthy and encouraging learning environments for all Utah students. The governor will also participate in the groundbreaking ceremony for the new school.
Who:
Gov. Gary R. Herbert
Rep. John Knotwell
Rep. Derrin Owens
Rep. Steve Eliason
Jim Riding, Mayor, West Jordan City
Patrice Johnson, Jordan School District Superintendent
Janice Voorhies, Jordan Board of Education
When:
Wednesday, April 24, 2019
10:00 a.m.
Where:
West Jordan, UT
Notes:
Governor Herbert will ceremonially sign the following bills:
H.B. 120 School Safety Amendments
H.B. 227 Computer Science Grant Act
H.B. 260 Access Utah Promise Scholarship Program
H.B. 373 Student Support Amendments
H.C.R. 14 Concurrent Resolution Encouraging High Expectations for Students with Disabilities
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"Yes, Your Kid": EVERY Child Is at Risk for Suicide
(and the Warning Signs Are Nearly Impossible to Spot)
By Dr. Mark Goulston
As a psychiatrist specializing in suicide prevention, it's deeply troubling to me that suicide rates keep climbing, especially for teens. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the suicide rate for white children between 10 and 17 years old was up 70 percent between 2006 and 2016, and up 77 percent for black children. Every time it happens, their bereaved parents say, "I had no idea." Other parents hear this and wonder how anyone could miss the signs. They often say, "That would never happen to my kid."
The truth is it could happen to your child...and you too may miss the warning signs. Suicide can affect any family at any time, and all parents should be on the lookout for behavioral indicators or suicidality.
Before you jump to judgment, there are a few things parents should know. The warning signs of suicide might be easier to piece together in retrospect, when you are looking for them. But in the moment, they can be much harder to detect. That's why it's so important to help everyone understand the suffering and isolation impacting the at-risk community. In Stay Alive, a new 75-minute video/podcast documentary (available here on YouTube), featuring myself, suicide survivor Kevin Hines and suicide prevention advocate Rayko, we have an honest conversation about what it feels like to be suicidal, and provide some insight into what parents and at risk teens need to understand about how to address these thoughts before they become fatal (#StayAliveNow).
To really move the needle, we need to remove the societal stigma surrounding suicide. This begins with helping the loved ones of those at risk gain understanding and offer support. The next step is helping society recognize what it really feels like to be suicidal. When everyone understands how much suffering is really going on, we have a real chance to reach out and save lives.
Meanwhile, parents need to be on the lookout for anything out of the ordinary in their children's behavior. It's crucial for them to learn to recognize the early warning signs of despair that could lead to suicide and break through at a time when their children need them the most.
A few insights:
First, accept that anyone can become suicidal. Prevention starts with understanding that suicidal thinking can strike anyone (yes, even your high-performing, seemingly confident, and happy child) at any time.
Know that your kids probably won't open up to you. They aren't going to come to you in despair, like you might imagine. They may feel that you won't understand, or that there's nothing you can do. They also might think that what they're going through is a "failure," and worry that you'll be disappointed in them.
Look for changes, even subtle ones. Be aware of any changes in your child's demeanor. Keep in mind, though, that these changes can be more difficult to spot among naturally moody teens who tend to isolate themselves even in the best of circumstances. Teens are moody—that's to be expected—but don't write it off as just moodiness. When it crosses over into physiological disturbances of sleep, appetite, sexual desire, or just an unshakable dark feeling, and stays stuck there, it has then crossed over into a mood disorder and can be incredibly destructive.
Know that little things can cause bigger problems. Something seemingly insignificant could be more impactful than it looks. So be aware of possible catalysts, whether it's the stress of starting a new school year, changes in their medicine, or even problems in their social life.
Initiate the conversation. Most importantly, parents must ask their teens how they are feeling. It's not enough to rely on indicators that you may or may not spot. If you suspect your child may be struggling, or even if you don't, here are five questions that might get the conversation flowing:
"At the worst that you can feel, how bad does that get?"
"When you've felt how bad it could get, how often did you feel alone?"
"And when you were feeling that horrible and alone with it, what did it make you think, feel, and want to do?"
"And what did you do?"
"If that is the case, I don't want you to be alone with those thoughts and feelings. So I'm asking you to call me when you are feeling that way and I will do my best to listen to you, hear you, and keep you company. I promise, I'm not going to give you advice or solutions unless you ask me for them. So would you be willing to call me when you're feeling like that? And by the way, if you think you're a burden, you're not. You're not a burden because inside you I can see and feel the good person that you are and also that you matter, neither of which you can see or feel when you're feeling so awful."
Let them know they are loved and that they are not alone. Pain is pain; suffering is feeling alone in pain. When you eliminate the aloneness, suffering that people can't live with becomes pain that they can live with.
Even if your child doesn't show it, they need you to be there to support them. Don't wait for them to ask for help. Reach out—even if your child appears to be thriving—and show them that you are here no matter what. Your compassion could truly be lifesaving.
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If you or someone you love needs help, call 911 or call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), or visit www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org.
About Dr. Mark Goulston:
Dr. Mark Goulston is the co-creator and moderator of the suicide prevention documentary Stay Alive. He is a former UCLA professor of psychiatry, suicide and violence prevention expert, and one of the world's foremost experts on listening. He is the author of the best-selling "Just Listen": Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone, which became the top book on listening in the world. Dr. Goulston's HBR IdeaCast episode Become a Better Listener is ranked number one of all their podcasts. He is also host of the My Wakeup Call podcast. Dr. Goulston is on the Board of Advisors for HealthCorps and will be receiving the Dr. W. Mark Warfel Resilient Heart Award in April 2019.
For more information, visit Dr. Goulston's website at www.markgoulston.com.
About Stay Alive (#StayAliveNow):
Stay Alive is a 75-minute video/podcast documentary serving at-risk populations. The program's two sections, Understanding and Helping, deliver messages of education, compassion, and caring for those who are in deep despair, along with guidance for their families and friends who love them. Moderated by Mark Goulston, MD, participants in Stay Alive's intimate and disclosing discussion also include Kevin Hines, best known as the man who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and survived (www.kevinhinesstory.com), and suicide prevention advocate Rayko (www.rayko.com). #StayAliveNow
Stay Alive is available here on YouTube, and will be available on Amazon Prime Video and other distribution channels free of charge.
For more information, please visit www.stayalivevideo.com.
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With February bringing the biggest month-to-month rise in existing-home sales since 2015, the personal-finance website WalletHub today released its report on 2019's Best Places to Be a Real Estate Agent as well as accompanying videos.
To determine the best markets for real-estate agents, WalletHub compared more than 170 U.S. cities across 19 key indicators of a healthy housing market, ranging from sales per agent to annual median wage for real-estate agents to housing-market health index.
Best Places to Be a Real-Estate Agent
1
Seattle, WA
11
Santa Rosa, CA
2
Salem, OR
12
Vancouver, WA
3
San Francisco, CA
13
Fargo, ND
4
Oakland, CA
14
Sioux Falls, SD
5
San Jose, CA
15
Tempe, AZ
6
Denver, CO
16
Gilbert, AZ
7
Fremont, CA
17
Portland, OR
8
Boston, MA
18
Irvine, CA
9
Washington, DC
19
Tacoma, WA
10
Phoenix, AZ
20
Mesa, AZ
Best vs. Worst
To view the full report and your city’s rank, please visit:
https://wallethub.com/edu/best-worst-cities-to-be-a-real-estate-agent/18713/
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