The Meaning of Valentine’s Day

A long, long time ago—way back in the year 496--Valentine’s Day, or St. Valentine’s Day, began. Now, that’s taking us way back!  As you know, this is a day, on February 14th, when people show affection for those they love through a variety of ways. For example: sending cards, flowers, chocolates, messages of love and so much more have all been part of Valentine’s Day!

Valentine’s Day gets its name from a famous saint. There are a few different stories as to who St. Valentine really was. Popular belief would say that St. Valentine was a priest from Rome in the 3rd century A.D. 

Sadly, he was killed for helping Christian couples wed. St. Valentine is also referred to as a martyr. However, since there are so many accounts of St. Valentine, we will simply say that he was a real person and he had real intentions to do good for many people.

In honor of St. Valentine here are a whole host of ways to say, “I love you” to YOUR Valentine this February (courtesy of www.goodhousekeeping.com)

1.     Use words of affirmation

You don’t always have to say, “I love you” to get your point across. There are other ways to share through words. Just so long as your coming across with feelings of love.

2.     Pick out a tangible gift

Listening to the interests of those you love really shows you care. And then surprising them with something they’ve mentioned, beforehand, is the icing on the cake.

3.     Choose an Act of Service

Anticipate the needs of your partner or someone you love (maybe a child) and give them a ‘break’ from the normal day to day routine.

4.     Spend quality time together doing something you both love

This is especially well-received for anyone.  Instead of watching each other on your phones or the latest Netflix has to offer, get out and do something memorable—even simple is best.

Physical touch is key

If your partner’s love language is physical touch consider a foot massage or back rub.  A warm embrace after a long day.  It can make a world of difference for someone you love.

Here’s a handful of some popular Valentine or romantic movies. Some are old and some are new. You can curl up with someone you love and watch it together.

1. Pride and Prejudice with Kiera Knightly (2005)
2. Before Sunrise with Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy (1995)
3. La La Land with Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone (2016)
4. The Notebook with Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams (2004)
5. The Thin Man with Maureen O’Sullivan (1934)
6. William Shakespears’ Romeo and Juliet (1996)
7. Breathless (1961)
8. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
9. 10 Things I Hate About You (1999)
10.  It Happened One Night with Clark Gable (1934)
11.  Harold and Maude (1971)
12.  Beginners (2010)
13.  When Harry Met Sally with Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan (1989)

So, what does Valentine’s Day mean to you?

Hopefully it means joy. Happiness. Love. Even if you don’t have a significant other you can still find meaning in Valentine’s Day.  There are children in everyone’s lives, teenagers that you may know who need a boost, a widow or widower.  You may surprise a co-worker or a friend from church.  A neighbor who is lonely or even your pet.  Look for opportunities to share your love.